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NEW NORMAL

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Normalcy everyone like but every day new challenges we have to face and we have to adopt some new rules ,regulations ,norms  with the hope that these new rules will bring positive changes in the coming life. There are  always difficulties  before adopting new norms, rules but ultimately we adopt and these new changes become normal, as usual. There are people who do not welcome new things enthusiastically but circumstances force them to accept new changes. Buses, Trains ,Metros, Aeroplanes…etc   all are normal now a days but they   also faced difficulties in making their place in the society. When computer   was introduced then nobody liked it because there was common opinion that it would turn many people unemployed, but   it is impossible to think about present life without computers. Now, This has also become normal. Like lock down was introduced to prevent   corona pandemic, first it was very difficult to remain always inside the home ...

LONELINESS

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Being alone is not equal to loneliness on the other hand loneliness means absence of recognition. When   one happens to be alone then one can be able to complete his essential tasks ,but when one become loneliness then one is not able to complete even ones priorities as well as essential tasks. Because loneliness is the absence   of   recognition. When   other people do not give respect to one that time one suffers from loneliness. Being alone is not great problem but being lonely   is great problem. Ways to overcome loneliness: First     realize that others opinion may be different , it is not unusual. Second     it is not necessary that   every       one must respect us. Third   we should not think that our judgments   will be right always. Fourth try to understand that with the time younger generation   become more smarter. Fifth always ready to learn new things if we stick to old means and ...

MULTI TASKING

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The word MULTI TASKING is very influencing    and present concept    of multi tasking is getting importance. Now    a days Multi Tasking is considered the key to success but it is not completely  true ,it  holds water but to certain limit. Actually multi tasking does give you success but a task done multiple times gives you success. So don’t focus on multi t asking   instead one must focus on doing a work multiple times with efficiency , that will  give you success. If one wants to achieve success then one must try to focus on    the work and try to achieve efficiency   in that work. Now we discuss the ways to achieve efficiency. Some of them are: First   understand   the our work thoroughly. Second decide the time limit to do that work with patience. Third analysis the work done and ponder over the result. Fourth   if we got the desired   result then continue doing that work otherwis...

Fear of new task,how to overcome?

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The answer is very simple of this question even though many people always busy in finding the of this question .First of all every one must think  fear before new task is normal.Every one has to face it,If we are facing such fear then it is not abnormal. Generally fear remains until we begin the new task, as soon as we starts the new task we no longer remain fearful instead be become focused  on the new task, that time we think ,how to complete  the task successfully? First we have understood that it is normal,now we try to find the way to overcome this, I think you would be agree ,as soon as we think that it is normal automatically much fear vanishes at once. Second there must be proper planning that what we have to do,if we know our field of work then there is no reason to remain fearful. Third ask your self that what happened when you failed in some task, certainly you will get the answer not very bad, so in future also same system will go on ie not very bad will be ha...

SECRET BEHIND SUCCESS

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There are many people who always wonder that what is the secrets behind successful people answer is simple, PATIENCE & WORK.  These are two magical words which defines one's success,You know if one wants to achieve something then he will have to work hard and wait till the result come.So patience and work are the most important factors to achieve the success. When you work in the direction to achieve some thing  think about the result but keep in your mind that result will take time ,so don't be in hurry continue work in the planned guidance. Remember we ourselves did not became adult immediately but we took the due time to become mature,same is with everything. There is  definite time for every thing to achieve  something ,one has to follow that path. We know when we plant a plant then also it takes time to grow fruits. If we start discussing the factors behind success then there are many facts have been told us by successful people,but in a nutshell only these ...

WHOM, PEOPLE LIKE ?

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Many people always remain confused about this question that why people respects someone very much  and other does not command that much respect.? Answer is simple generally only that person command respect in the society who gives respect to others,the person who takes interest in others ,that person become centre of attraction amid others this is set rule and it is true up to 99% ,but one person are those who are famous by birth,these one percent people do not put any extra effort,even though they become popular. Here our aim is not to discuss about these one percent because there might be many reasons about these people ,such as their good looks,their birth in rich family,their intelligence,their communication skills,their excellent knowledge about current affairs... and so many, be can analysis endlessly but it is difficult to come an acceptable conclusion If unfortunately we do not fall in those one percent then there are some tips one can follow to become the centre of attract...

HOW TO BE HAPPY ALONE

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It is very difficult to be happy alone.With our family,friends... remains happy is not difficult. Actually human is a social guy,he wants company of some humans always.This question comes later company of like minded or not like minded,actually it does not matter but company is must for a human. Now a days everyone is busy with himself and everyone is little selfish also. Everyone one wants to spend time with himself but it is seen that this loneliness does not make a person happy for long ultimately one requires a company to be happy. There are many people who don't have company,family they have to remain alone most of the time,now they really needs guidance to be happy,here are a few suggestions... First go to nearby stadiam or a park where you see some children playing at least observe them and remains self motivated. Follow your hobbies at least one like reading,writing... Try to meditate for one to two hours daily. Sleep for at least ten hours Cook your food y...